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More Than a File (on being a whole life, and not a stack of paper.

By Tobia · July 7, 2026 · 4 min read

Tobia Bradley, CDC · Certified Divorce Coach ASHBY JONES & ASSOCIATES, LLC Lexington | Columbia | Charleston There is a fear in this season that almost no one says out loud. It does not show up in the big moments. It shows up in the quiet ones. You are driving home from an appointment, or […]

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Co-Parenting & Children

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October 7, 2026

Co-Parenting & Children

When the Holidays Look Different This Year

A gentle guide to coparenting through every holiday, whether your divorce is final or still unfolding. TOBIA BRADLEY, CDC, CERTIFIED DIVORCE COACH If you are reading this with a little ache in your chest, you are in good company. It is early October. The orange and black aisle is already up at the grocery store, […]

September 24, 2026

Co-Parenting & Children

It was Still Their Childhood

On the co-parenting moments when you have every right to say no, and the question worth asking before you do. Tobia Bradley, CDC, Certified Divorce Coach There is a specific kind of anger that only co-parenting can hand you. It shows up the second you realize a plan got changed without you, that a decision […]

September 9, 2026

Co-Parenting & Children

The Day You Get Back (Co-Parenting: Part Three of Three)

On letting go of control, and the freedom waiting on the other side Tobia Bradley, CDC · Certified Divorce Coach · Ashby Jones & Associates, LLC The first two parts of this were about your children. This one is about you. I have been telling you what they absorb and what they are not old […]

August 31, 2026

Co-Parenting & Children

What the House Felt Like (Co-parenting – Part Two)

On what children absorb, and the things they are not old enough to carry Tobia Bradley, CDC · Certified Divorce Coach · Ashby Jones & Associates, LLC In the first part of this, I said the only question that matters now is what kind of adults your children become. This is the part where I […]

August 28, 2026

Co-Parenting & Children

The Same Very Long Project

(Co-parenting: Part One of Three) On co-parenting, and the question that actually matters now Tobia Bradley, CDC · Certified Divorce Coach · Ashby Jones & Associates, LLC I want to start with something difficult, and then tell you why I think you can hear it. Somewhere in all of this, there is a question you […]

Co-Parenting & Children

The Greater Good

On protecting your children above the fight, no matter how it ends between the two of you. TOBIA BRADLEY, CDC · CERTIFIED DIVORCE COACH I am going to say something to you today that may be hard to hear in the middle of everything you are carrying. I know this season is one of the […]

Co-Parenting & Children

When They Use the Children Against You and What Not Today is Building

Recognizing the pattern, protecting your children, and holding your ground.

Co-Parenting & Children

Not Today with Your Children (Part 5)

Applying the Not Today framework to the moments that involve your kids.

Co-Parenting & Children

The Gray Rock and The Green Tree

Two metaphors for staying grounded while co-parenting with a difficult ex.

Co-Parenting & Children

The Anchor in the Storm: Why Consistency and Routine Are Everything for Your Children During and After Divorce

How steady routines protect children during and after divorce.